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Exploring the Benefits of Emotional Support and Therapy Animals Pets for Neurodivergent Individuals: An Insightful Discussion
Introduction
In today’s blog post, we bring highlights from an engaging session with Dr. Gary Brucato and Dr. Mikki Lee, both renowned experts in working with neurodivergent individuals, focusing particularly on those on the autism spectrum. This dialogue was structured around the profound impact pets and therapy animals can have on the emotional and social wellbeing of autistic individuals. This comprehensive discussion aims to provide a rich understanding of how animals can support neurodivergent populations and the considerations involved in introducing animals into therapeutic settings.
Meeting the Experts
Dr. Mikki Lee’s Passionate Journey
Dr. Mikki Lee is a licensed psychologist with extensive experience in autism, ADHD, and neurodivergent populations. Her journey into this field began unexpectedly during her high school years, when she worked as a teacher’s assistant at a special needs preschool. Dr. Lee quickly developed a passion for supporting children with autism, which led her to pursue further studies at Hofstra University. She focused on both school and clinical psychology, and her work spans various educational and clinical settings.
"Animals can offer grounding and stress reduction. Whether it's sensory support, emotional stability, or a calming presence during stressful situations, their benefits are undeniably transformative for autistic individuals."
Mikki Lee, Psy.D.

Dr. Gary Brucato’s Unique Perspective
Dr. Gary Brucato, a clinical and forensic psychologist, brings a distinct perspective to the discussion. He is internationally recognized for his work on violence and severe mental illness but also specializes in working with individuals on the autism spectrum. His passion for this work was fueled by his interest in high-intelligence individuals, including child prodigies, many of whom are on the autism spectrum. Dr. Brucato emphasizes the importance of stable, loving relationships, which pets uniquely provide.
Animal Companionship: Emotional Support versus Therapy Animals
Understanding the Terminology
The talk began by clarifying the difference between emotional support animals (ESAs) and therapy animals. Dr. Lee explained that while ESAs provide comfort and reduce anxiety without specific training, therapy animals undergo rigorous training to assist with medical conditions or emotional support needs. While Dr. Lee does not utilize animals directly in her practice, she acknowledges the vast body of research supporting the benefits of animal-assisted therapy, such as therapeutic horseback riding.
How Animals Support Autistic Individuals
Dr. Lee highlighted how animals can provide unique benefits for autistic individuals. Whether it’s sensory support, emotional stability, or a calming presence during stressful situations, animals can offer grounding and stress reduction. ESAs, for instance, can accompany their owners in various environments, including flights or school settings, making them invaluable companions in challenging scenarios.
Reflections from Dr. Brucato
Dr. Brucato expanded the conversation, emphasizing that pets can offer a therapeutic experience by providing stable, unconditional love. For autistic individuals, the predictability and consistency that pets offer can mirror the supportive environment of therapy itself. He shared an example from his practice where even something as simple as removing his jacket could disrupt the comforting constancy his neurodivergent clients relied upon. Just as these clients find stability in consistency, so too do they find comfort and predictability in pet companionship.
The relationship with pets is extremely predictable and stable. They're stably loving objects, always the same, providing us with consistency and unconditional affection, much like a supportive therapeutic environment."
Gary Brucato, Ph.D. Tweet
Family Considerations in Introducing an Animal
Understanding the Family Dynamic
It’s crucial for families to collectively agree on introducing a pet. Dr. Lee stresses the importance of observing how the autistic individual responds to animals in different settings, ensuring the choice aligns with the familyās lifestyle and resources. Whether it involves a family pet, an ESA, or a service animal, thorough assessment and agreement is necessary for a successful integration.

Evaluating Readiness
There are times when families might be advised against acquiring a pet. Dr. Lee mentions safety concerns, such as how a child may interact non-safely with animals, severe allergies, or inherent fears of animals, as factors that may delay or dissuade introducing a pet at a particular time. She suggests exploring alternative ways to assess a childās readiness, like organizing visits to adoption centers or engaging with animals in controlled settings.
Expanding the Definition of ‘Pets’
Dr. Brucato reminds us that for neurodivergent individuals, the concept of a “pet” can vary widely. Beyond dogs and cats, it can include fish, reptiles, or even ants, offering plenty of options to suit different needs and preferences. It’s important to match the right type of animal to the personās interests and the family’s capability to manage the petās care.

Navigating Pet Loss
The bond between individuals and their pets can be deeply emotional and impactful. For autistic individuals, whose routines and emotional wellness can be closely tied to this companionship, the loss of a pet presents a profound challenge. Pets serve not only as companions but as sources of stability and comfort. Losing such a stabilizing presence can disrupt the sense of routine and emotional security.
The loss serves as an important opportunity for growth and learning. It teaches individuals about the reality of life, helping them navigate grief and build resilience. Dr. Brucato notes that through the experiences of pet loss, one learns to deal with emotional realities, providing an opportunity for personal development and emotional processing. This navigation of loss underscores the profound bonds formed with pets and the significant impact they have on emotional growth.
Conclusive Thoughts
The Transformative Power of Animals
Through the observations and case studies shared by Dr. Lee and Dr. Brucato, it’s clear that animals can serve as more than just companions; they can be therapeutic allies. For autistic individuals, who often require structure and predictability, the unwavering affection and stability animals provide can be transformative.
Final Reflections
Both experts agree that while pets offer numerous benefits, deciding to bring one into a household should be a thoughtful process that involves the whole family. It requires considering the type of pet that aligns with the family’s lifestyle and the autistic individual’s needs. By choosing wisely, families can unlock the profound healing benefits that come with the human-animal bond.
In conclusion, whether through ESAs, therapy animals, or family pets, integrating animals into the lives of autistic individuals can foster a supportive environment that bolsters emotional and social well-being. This careful consideration and willingness to explore various options allow families to create enriching and supportive structures that enhance the lives of neurodivergent individuals.
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